Happy Thanksgiving!

This year we give praise to God and our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ for providing our needs and some of our wants, and thanks to all of our people who love and help support us.

The picture above is Walker's "sleeping bassinet". We have not completed the final move into Walker's room, that's what sleep deprivation will do when you don't prepare ahead of time.

I guess we "thought" we had more time. But this arrangement has actually worked out for the best for the moment. I don't have to move far from the bed to reach him and he's not super worked up waiting on me to feed him at night. The drawback is Poppy's sleep but since he's not going to work this week-end, we can make this work for a few more days. I am ready to have his room set up, with the crib and clothes in their proper place. Maybe we'll get to it this week.

Poppy Love

One thing you should not do when you bring a new baby home is ignore the current "babies". The girls got plenty of love from us and here's a few pics of them with Poppy.

Big Sisters

Here they are, the big sisters!

They were very happy to be able to hold baby Walker in the hospital and almost each night they get two minutes to hold the baby. They really love this time with him even though it's short.

Now they have at least one thing in common, they are both big sisters, and they do seem bigger to me.

The girls are holding up well but they are bouncing off the walls a bit. I think partially due to the interrupted schedule baby brother has introduced as well as the wintertime lack of outside activities. I'd still be taking them to the zoo at this time of year or the park so I do feel a bit sorry for them but they are the luckiest big sisters in the world.

It's a Boy!

Welcome to our lives Walker. The girls are so happy to finally meet you!

Roommates

Poppy worked extremely hard today rearranging and organizing the girls' room. We had to make a trip to the container store for more shelving so each of the girls could have their own drawer space in the closet. I had a meltdown about where the PJ's would go but we eventually figured it out. After tossing out some dozens of kids hangers and random kids bits and pieces, the girls are on their way to sharing a room.

We've decided to put bunk beds on hold for a while b/c of safety questions since they are so young. This makes the room even tighter. We are going to try the set up as is and see how they are able to sleep and use the room. We've left the bookcase and I intend to have some space or cubby or box for each of them for "their" stuff. "Their stuff" was an issue prior to moving in together so I'd like for them to be able to keep personal items to themselves without having to share since they are already sharing a room. Of course, I will always encourage sharing but I don't want everything to have to be shared via parental mandate or situation mandate.

Now the dining room and baby's room are a mess and tomorrow I hope to sort out the remaing stuff without a home at current posting.

UPDATE: Helen fell asleep before Carys tonight, wonder of wonders. They were both tired since we got up super early. I know this is the honeymoon stage and things can (and likely will) go downhill before they are permanently settled into sharing a room. But it's interesting how happy and content Helen seemed tonight to be sleeping in big sister's room. And Carys does have a generosity that is beyond her age allowing her sister to invade her room with a happy heart.

We'll see...

Tiny Dancers

Helen has a CD player in her room for her nighttime soothing music. Now her room has morphed into the princesses ball. She and Carys have been dressing up and playing the one princess CD they have over and over. It's great fun for them, now that they are taking dance class, they are very interpretive of the music. Carys is looking forward to teaching a dance class to Helen and the new baby once he arrives.

Very Little House on the Prairie

Poppy and I are not complete city dwellers so we do have a yearning at times to be in the open country. We tried our local forest preserve but found some unauthorized fire pits, luckily minus the people who created them. This led us to the Arboretum, which is not near our house at all, but totally worth it. Since we rarely have a chance to wander, the girls enjoyed running freely. Being outside, with trees and grass on all sides was great until the mosquitos started biting, which reminded me that I do like the city for a lot of reasons too.

There is no perfect place, but luckily we have outlets for our city genes and our country genes.

Flu Shots

Just another reminder to get your flu shot. We've all had ours now. The girls and I got ours today. Carys was VERY upset to have a shot today. Reminds me of myself, I used to be TERRIFIED of shots. A sticker and a sucker go a long way in the healing process.

Construction Paper, Glue Sticks and Scissors

The girls spend a LOT of time with construction paper, glues sticks and scissors. Helen LOVES cutting paper. She's had a few close calls but is pretty good with the scissors. Then she glues the bits on more paper or bags them for next time. We've added other elements like jewels and cutouts from magazines. I need to take more time to have cut outs from magazines and show them how to make collages.

Carys was in a building mood and was making a house until she became frustrated that she did not know how to put a roof on. I think that ended this session for her but it kept her busy for a good while.

Little Chef

Helen loves to cut things. With knives (here she's using a dull butterknife) or scissors. At school, part of the practical life skills is cutting carrots. She's cut herself a few times but I believe they monitor the kids fairly well.

I've not had the chance to do much cooking with the girls and Helen in particular. They've had a ton of practice setting the table and are great helpers with putting out dinner plates, forks, drinks etc.

I'm looking forward to having more time to find recipes we can all work on. It's best if there are a few jobs for each of the girls and they do not have to do the same thing. They are becoming competative so it's not fun when they argue over jobs. We all did make a brocolli and rice casserole (Helen's favorite) together with no fussing. Everyone was able to do a few jobs and it was very satisfying.

First Day of School

Carys and Helen are at the same school this year in the same classroom. I'm not sure it's been as productive as having them in different classes, but there are other reasons for that as well.

Carys seems protective of her little sister as she is protective of the other little kids. She is definitely the mother hen, sometimes to her detriment. Her challenge is focusing on herself and her work first and helping others when she's completed her tasks. She is a social butterfly.

Helen's challenge is following the montessori rules and picking work that's appropriate for her age. She is very independent spirited and will try to do work she's not ready for. This will serve her later but right now, she has to learn the steps to put things together.

Helen 10 Day Update

The recovery period for Helen's procedure is 10-14 days. I thought we might have a shorter period because she seems to heal so fast. I was wrong. She's had good and bad moments and some really good moments recently but she is still recovering and in pain during certain times of the day. Particularly at night sleeping. I'm thinking maybe because she's not distracted by anything and acutely aware of pain and her need for sleep. She did not get any pain meds last night because we were trying to see if she needed it and we were feeling like we were starting to overmedicate her. Turns out we should have given them. I've spoken with the ENT nurse and have it all straightened out now so she should get a good rest tonight.

The pics are from this summer. We found another great hangout, the Morton Arboretum. It's not as convenient as the zoo but has some great little trails where you can pack a lunch and forget you are part of the big city. In addition, it has the BEST kids playpark. I'm sure we took more pics, I'll dig them up for later posts. It's good to remember how fun summer is as a motivator to get through winter.

Update on Helen's Surgery

She did excellent on Halloween and the next day. So well that we began spacing her meds 6 hours. But there is a relapse period we were aware of but forgot about momentarily and she started to feel the affects of her surgery and the scabbing that occurs at the surgical site. She'd eaten well and did not complain until we put her down for bedtime, she was boohooing a few hours later. We could not be sure she was awake but decided to give her the meds an hour early. She would not have ANY of it. I think she may have been caught halfway asleep and was in pain AND mad that we were trying to wake her up. After much crying, I was able to rock her and calm her down. Once she started snoring, we were able to administer the meds.

Today she's doing well with a little fussiness this morning that she did not sleep well. I tried to have her nap today, she would have none of it. Hopefully tonight will be restful.

She's staying out of school a few more days until she no longer needs meds and can eat regular food.

Halloween 2008

Carys and Helen had a great Halloween (these pics are from their Walkathon parade last week- pre surgery). Helen was a trooper and went trick or treating and did not fuss when I told her she had to wait to eat her candy. I did bring some hershey kisses to ease the candy moratorium.

We had the usual clan there with the little kids getting bigger and ready to trick or treat too, Silas, Kerala and Claire. It was a kids chaotic paradise. Carys totally got away with eating some candy I would not normally allow. I have a feeling once we have three, she'll try to take advantage of the chaos a little more as little kid would. I'll have to work with her on that.

In the end, we went home with a smaller amount of candy than we have had in past years (I was happy about that).